Sunday 3 August 2008

Sacred?

Well this will probably have no real coherence to it. It will essentially just be one long ramble about shizzle on my mind.

A couple of weeks ago, sitting in Burger King with Jessica at Canary Wharf we were discussing relationships in general. Generally one hell of a girly discussion. It struck me, about the sacredness of relationships, or rather the lack of.

Around me, people I see, seem to treat them as nothing. Like people go from girl to girl, boy to boy, with little regard for the impact of the previous person in their life. Now ok, I get why, but at the same time, they treat it as if it was nothing. The ability to flit from relationship to relationship, sort of says something about your attitude towards relationships. Like it doesn't matter really who it is, as long as you have someone. Treating their girlfriend/boyfriend as little more than a glorified friend. Where is the DEEP spiritual, emotional, and mental connection? Nowadays its all about sex and just a bit of conversation. But a relationship is soo much more. Y'know, there is no sacredness in the relationship between a man and a woman.

Like the next person they date. The way they treat them, speak to them etc, the reasons they like them are just the same as the previous person, its just a differant name. I mean I am not saying that there is anything wrong with that, and maybe I am completly missing something, I don't give a fuck, but I dunno, just seems a bit too generic, and relationships shouldn't be treated as a generic thing. They are soo much more.

Well rant over.

'There is only one reality, neither to be realised or attained. To say "I am able to realise something" or say "I am able to attain something" is to place yourself among the arrogant'