musings

Ok, so lets say you hurt someone really badly but in your opinon you didn't cause it, yet everyone else seems to think you have. Why do you feel that it isn't your fault? I was thinking about this, and the best answer I could come up with is responsibility. Unless you take responsibilty for something, you won't feel like you have done anything wrong. Which then begs the question, Do we have to take responsibility for something? Like if you fuck around with someone mentally/emotionally, do you have to take responsibilty for what you did or can you legitimately not give a fuck?